Terrible twos

So here's a story that sums up what I am dealing with Jay's terrible twos...
I put Emery down for a nap but she woke up after only sleeping for a half hour so I put on a show for Jay and went into the nursery to feed and get Em back to sleep. It was quiet for about 10 mins and then Jay walked in...I motioned for her to be quiet cuz Em was mostly alseep and she got that look in her eye like ya right. She started out singing softly which grew louder so I explained that if she would just give me a minute to put Emery down then I would be able to play with her. She looked at me for a sec and then turned and walked out of the room. I thought wow that went well, then I heard something coming down the hall. Jay showed up with a laundry basket and a wooden spoon, she turned the basket over and started beating it like a drum. Oh man, I was so mad I put Em down (she of coarse was wide awake now) and threw Jaylee into timeout. This girl is going to kill me!